Month: November 2007

  • Camelot...

    Of course, there never really was a Camelot. It was just that most of us were too naive and content. We had WWII and Korea behind us. Done. We were ready for pretty, and happy, and home, and fun. And, yes, we elected a President who was handsome, who had a beautiful, cultured wife, and his children were adorable, and his huge family was a close knit bunch, and they all loved their mother. Camelot.

    On the afternoon of November 22nd, 1963, someone breached the walls of Camelot. There isn't a person of that era who doesn't remember exactly where they were when they heard. I was in typing class [luol]. They announced it on the PA system and sent us home, a busload of shaking, sobbing, teens. There we sat for I don't remember how many days, glued to the TV and speaking in hushed tones. The caisson, the magnificent horse with the boots backwards in the stirrups, John-John's salute, Jackie's widow's weeds...a nation, some say world, in mourning.....

    ....and we became a nation in flux. Yes, I said flux. And we began to flux all over the damn place.

    Burn your draft card, take off your bra, sit anywhere on the bus. Sing-along, sit in, march, stand up, take your pill, drop out, and make love not war - twice. Not everyone, of course. But we were getting deeper and deeper into Viet Nam, and losing another generation of young people was just too much to ask.

    Even the Church was in flux. We listened to the newly formed Ecumenical Council un-decree a lot of customs that the older generations were attached to. The Mass in English! The dress code! The kiss of Peace! Hootenannies! Eventually, even Friday night burgers!

    I don't feel knowledgeable enough to comment on the politics of the day. I was a self involved teenager. My sense of Johnson was of an old uncle who mumbles. And, "Tricky Dick?", well, say what you will, for whatever reasons, he 'ended' the war. Or, as I recall, basically he said "Enough".

    The real 60's were a joyous, horrendous, psychedelic, fearful, ever changing and growing as a nation, time. Every strata, every age group, every ethnicity, was on the move forward. And then they killed Martin, and soon after, Bobby.

    I truly mourned the loss of Martin. We were finally making real progress. People were beginning to come together and the movement, led by Martin, was the force making it happen. Many people had 'the dream'.

    Two months later, when my clock radio woke me one morning, I felt paralyzed by the weight of the news. I went downstairs and stood at the foot of my parent's bed until they awoke. I remember my mother staring at me for a few moments and asking, in barely a whisper, as if she already knew...."what?". As I burst into tears, I burbled, "They've killed Bobby". I don't remember if we got any days off, but I do remember watching the train, for hours, that took him home.

    If you think this is a sad story...one of the saddest parts is that it really happened...to all of us. And the world was never the same. "In short, there's simply not, a more congenial spot, for happily-ever-aftering, than here in Camelot."

    P.S. And, if you think of it, on Thanksgiving {Nov. 22nd}, remember to be thankful to any over-the-hill hippies you may still have in your life...or, not. All we were saying is, Give Peace A Chance.

  • Nov. 12th - - VA Complaint Dept.

    I recently found myself taking the VA to task over one of its procedures. That is, the protocol it follows when a Veteran passes away. There have been a lot of complaints about the services they provide. And rightly so. But, when a Veteran dies, there is no agency I have ever had the privilege of dealing with, that honors its dead with more grace.

    When my father (WWII) passed away, he chose to be buried in a National Cemetary. They were ever so solicitous of, my mother first, and then the rest of us. A very touching memorial praising my father's service was completed by the playing of taps. Very moving, and my mother was presented with a flag. When Mom (WWIII) passed, a few years later, we had a similar service, presented again by the VA. We donated Dad's flag to the Library in his town. When my dahlin' passed, we gave his flag to his brother, whom he never got along with, but loved to pieces. Love the Flag protocol.

    I actually love the protocol that I ended up complaining about. Not for it's substance, but for it's timing. I didn't really notice the mailing so much when my Dad died. There were just too many other things to do, and paperwork to organize, and Mom to get squared away. When I received my own, it really bothered me. Don't get me wrong, it's lovely and I will cherish it always. It's a beautifully embossed and formally written on parchment, certificate that says "The United States of America honors the memory of {your loved one}. This certificate is awarded by a grateful nation in recognition of devoted and selfless consecration to the service of our country in the Armed Forces of the United States." It is really a wonderful testament.

    My complaint ? First, let me say, my husband was extremely proud to have served. It was something he carried with him always. He loved this country, with all its faults. He wasn't afraid to complain, loud and long, but his dedication to preserving our way of life, never wavered. My complaint is, and my suggestion to the VA was, this should have been presented to him, when he was alive. He would have been so pleased. Especially after Viet Nam, this would have meant so much to him. As I'm sure it would to any soldier.

    So, basically, that's what I told the Veteran's Administration. They really do have a lot of other problems, and so many people to care for. I just wanted to thank them for the flags and explain why I think they should make a change and honor the living, too.

    Okay......NOW Veterans Day is over.
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  • To all Veterans and soldiers...

    For those of you still able to take nourishment

    ******** HAPPY VETERANS DAY *******

    Truly, sincerely, from the bottom of my heart, and
    with every free breath I take....THANK YOU.

  • MUSICAL TRIBUTE (sans music - hehe)

    I stand for motherhood, America, and a hot lunch for orphans.
    Take off your hat, sir, Betsy Ross's Flag is passing.
    Do you see it on the hill at Gettysburg,
    'Neath that great Triumphal Arch?
    If you see it as he's trampling through the Grapes of Wrath,
    Stand up and March, March, March.

    Four score and seven years ago...
    March, march...
    Damn the torpedoes, full steam ahead...
    March, march...
    Remember the Alamo...
    March, march...
    One if by land and two if by sea...
    March, march...
    Glory, Glory, Hallelujah !
    Stand up and March, March, March.

  • Too Lazy to Think {Part Deux} - -

    I think it's time for some more excerpts from my "collection of things that amuse moi". Perhaps I'll try a theme of women and/or kids. Both topics can be very amusing.
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    Three Wise Women would have....Asked directions, arrived on time, helped deliver the baby, cleaned the stable, made a casserole, brought practical gifts, and...there would be Peace On Earth.
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    Dear Lord,
    So far today, I've done allright. I have not gossiped, or lost my temper. I have not been greedy, grumpy, nasty, selfish, or over-indulgent. I am very thankful....But, in a few minutes I'll be getting out of bed, and from then on I am probably going to need a lot more help.
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    They say wisdom comes as you age.
    Now I'm in a real jam.
    At sixty, I should be a sage,
    And look what a twit I am.
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    I am not asking you to be a normal child....I am just suggesting you be smarter about your crazy side.
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    You've got to put down the ducky,
    If you want to play the saxophone.
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    A good Life lasts for generations.
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    Here's to good Women
    May we know them
    May we be them
    May we raise them
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    Well, that's what you get when I spend more time talking to youse guys than writing my own stuff. So.... behave yourselves......"Don't make me get the flying monkeys" (I love that one, hehehe)